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30-Day Firm & Kind Journey for Parents (9 Guides)

9 guides.

$110.00

  • Firm & Kind Field Guide (14 pages)
  • 100 Things to Say Instead of Yelling (17 pages)
  • Stop Yelling: 30-Day Reset (23 pages)
  • Trigger Journal & Progress Tracker (6 pages)
  • 30-Day Implementation Roadmap (10 pages) — exclusive
  • Gentle to Authoritative Transition Guide (18 pages)

9 guides. The full system for parents who want to stop yelling, hold boundaries, and stay connected — without becoming permissive or authoritarian.

The Complete Firm & Kind Parenting Programme is a 9-guide bundle that covers the framework, the scripts, the daily practice, the tracking, the transition, the big-feelions protocols, the self-assessment, and the family meeting structure. It takes you from "I yell too much and I don't know how to stop" to "I hold firm boundaries with warmth and my kids know the rules are real."

This is not a collection of parenting tips. It is a complete system — from understanding your parenting style, through the 30-day reset, to the scripts for every scenario, to the weekly family meeting that keeps the whole household on track.

What's included

IncludedWhat it does
Firm & Kind Field Guide (14 pages)The framework: Warmth × Structure matrix, Three Beats formula, consequence hierarchy, partner alignment scripts, and the Repair Playbook.
100 Things to Say Instead of Yelling (17 pages)The scripts: 100 scenario-specific replacements for yelling, age-banded, with the HALT cycle framework and a printable fridge card.
Stop Yelling: 30-Day Reset (23 pages)The practice: a day-by-day behavioural reset programme with baseline self-assessment and weekly reflection pages.
Trigger Journal & Progress Tracker (6 pages)The tracking: daily trigger log, weekly reflection, and a progress tracker showing your yelling frequency dropping over 30 days.
30-Day Implementation Roadmap (10 pages) — exclusiveThe connector: tells you exactly which guide to open on which day, which pages to read, and which exercise to do.
Gentle to Authoritative Transition Guide (18 pages)The transition: for parents moving from gentle parenting to the firm-and-kind approach. Includes the extinction burst protocol, pushback scripts, and partner alignment.
Boundary Scripts for Big Feelings (16 pages)The deep scripts: 75 scripts for tantrums, meltdowns, anxiety, anger, sadness, and grief. Age-banded with neurodivergent adaptations and parent self-regulation.
Parenting Style Self-Assessment (8 pages) — exclusiveThe diagnostic: a scored quiz that places you on the Warmth × Structure matrix and gives you a personalised action plan.
Family Meeting Toolkit (8 pages) — exclusiveThe weekly structure: meeting agendas, scripts, age-appropriate roles, and a printable agenda template that turns boundaries into family agreements.