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Digital bookFamily Meeting Toolkit (DIGITAL GUIDE)$17.00Digital book100 Things to Say Instead of Yelling (DIGITAL GUIDE)100 Things to Say Instead of Yelling is a practical script guide for parents of children aged 2–10.$17.00Digital bookBoundary Scripts For Big Feelings (DIGITAL GUIDE)Boundary Scripts for Big Feelings is a tactical 22-page guide for parents who want to stay connected to their child during an emotional storm without caving on the boundary.$27.00Digital bookThe Research Changed, Not You (Part 3 of 7)The Research Changed, Not You is a 14-page emotional reset for grandparents who feel quietly criticized — "I raised you and you turned out fine, so what was wrong with how I did it?" It separates the sting from the facts: the research changed, you didn't do it wrong, and both things can be true …$27.00Digital bookStop Yelling Parenting System (5 GUIDES)5 guides.$94.00Digital bookRespect Goes Both Ways How Grandparents Can Navigate Parenting Differences Without Walking on Eggshells (Part 5 of 7)Respect Goes Both Ways is a 15-page communication guide for grandparents who feel like they "can't say anything without starting a fight." It gives you the ASK framework, a simple way to sort safety from style, and 8 word- for-word scripts for the hardest moments — plus the three-step apology th…$27.00Digital bookWhen the Door Closes A Grandparent's Guide to Repairing Trust After a Parenting Rift (Part 7 of 7)When the Door Closes is an 18-page repair guide for grandparents living the hardest version of this — "they've stopped letting me see the kids." It walks you through the OWLS repair framework — Own your part, Wait without pressure, Listen without defending, Show change through action — plus a fi…$27.00Digital bookParenting Style Self-Assessment (DIGITAL GUIDE)$27.00Digital bookHow Grandparents Can Support New Parents Without Overstepping (Part 4 of 7)Support Without Oversteppingis a 16-page practical guide for grandparents who keep thinking "I just want to be useful, but nothing I do seems right." It gives you the Support Menu — a simple way to offer help parents actually want — plus 10 side-by-side examples of what supporting looks like ver…$27.00Digital bookGentle to Authoritative The Firm & Kind Transition Guide (DIGITAL GUIDE)Gentle to Authoritative is a practical 22-page bridge for parents who have spent years building a foundation of warmth but find themselves exhausted by constant negotiation, re-explaining, and caving.$27.00Digital bookTrigger Journal Progress Tracker (DIGITAL GUIDE)The Trigger Journal & Progress Tracker is a printable daily tool Tool 2 of 7 in the series designed to make the invisible patterns of the yelling cycle visible.$17.00Digital bookThe Parallel Parenting Playbook (DIGITAL GUIDE)The Parallel Parenting Playbook is a practical guide for separated parents who want to reduce conflict and protect their peace while raising their children.$27.00Digital bookFirm & Kind What Every New Grandparent Needs to Know (Part 1 of 7)Firm & Kind: Foundations is a warm 14-page starter guide for grandparents who keep thinking "they never discipline that child" — and want to understand what their grown children are actually doing, and why it works.$27.00Digital bookFirm & Kind in Practice The Grandparent's Babysitting Playbook (Part 6 of 7)The Babysitting Playbookis a 14-page confidence guide for grandparents who feel a quiet panic when they're alone with the grandchild — "what am I actually allowed to do?" It gives you the pre-babysitting conversation, the two-category rule non-negotiables vs.$27.00Digital bookConnection Before Correction A Grandparent's Guide to the New Parenting Language (Part 2 of 7)Connection Before Correctionis a 16-page translation guide for grandparents who hear words like co-regulationand body autonomy and quietly think "what does that even mean?" It decodes the 14 terms you'll actually hear , each one with a plain definition, what it looked like when you were raising …$27.00Digital book30-Day Implementation Roadmap (DIGITAL GUIDE)The 30-Day Implementation Roadmap is a practical 10-page orchestrator guide for parents who have the Firm & Kind system in their hands — but don't know where to start, what to read first, or how to actually build the habit day by day.$27.00Digital book30-Day Firm and Kind Journey for Grandparents (7 Guides)The Complete Firm & Kind Grandparent Series The Complete Firm & Kind Grandparent Series is the full 7-guide program for grandparents who love their grandchildren deeply — but feel lost in a new world of parenting where the rules, the words, and even the discipline have changed since they raised t…$200.00Digital book30-Day Firm & Kind Reset (DIGITAL GUIDE)Stop Yelling is a practical 23-page PDF guide for parents who are tired of hearing their own voice go sharp — and want a step-by-step plan to change the pattern without throwing out everything that already works.$27.00Digital book30-Day Firm & Kind Journey for Parents (9 Guides)9 guides.$110.00Digital bookFirm & KindJourney to Firm & Kind Parents (DIGITAL GUIDE)A$27.00